I hear people saying all the time, you must stay positive.

Well, positivity is more productive than negativity, but did you know that being positive can create negativity? Huuuhhh!!!!!

Think about this: You look in the mirror and you are not happy with the person that you see. So you proceed to practice being positive. “I love the person that I see. That person is slim. She/he is …..” You get the point.

Well doesn’t a little voice creep in and say “You are lying. Look at you. You are…”

What started out to be “positive” actually became a “negative” conversation. Which will create negative feelings. Which could create more stress or depression (depending on where you stand).

For an example: you have weeds in your garden. You decide to be positive by saying “there are no weeds, there are no weeds”. Well, recognize that you got weeds (get over it) and pull them out of your garden. Just being positive is not going to get rid of the weeds.

In some instances a negative is a positive. What?

Example: You are a person that gets angry and screams and creates havoc when a certain situation occurs. Now, you get angry and keep it inside. The anger is still a negative, but it is positive compared to the way you used to address the issue. Now you can work on moving from the anger stage.

By the way, in the weight conversation, a better statement may be “I am moving towards having the slim body that I dreamed about”. Isn’t that true. If you have made a decision to do something about your weight, aren’t you moving towards your goal? This will create better feelings because you know it is true and you can “Believe it”.

So bottom line, what am I saying? Just being positive is not the entire answer. It helps. You have to believe that there is a positive solution. The faith that you will figure a way out of it is what will create better feelings. The ideal is to create better feelings. Better feelings will release stress and that ultimately will create a positive environment.

It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.

One day a father and his rich family took his son to a trip to the country with the firm purpose to show him how poor people can be.


They spent a day and a night in the farm of a very poor family. When they got back from their trip the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”

“Very good Dad!”"Did you see how poor people can be?”the father asked.

“Yeah!”

“And what did you learn?”

The son answered, “I saw that we have a dog at home, and they have four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of the garden, they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lamps in the garden, they have the stars. Our patio reaches to the front yard, they have a whole horizon.”When the little boy was finishing, his father was speechless.

His son added, “Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are!”

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Click heDeceiving others; That is what the World calls { Romance }... !!

Actually, I started to believe that the art of { Pleasing } is the art of { Deceiving }…

Have an insight look over the { Actions } and the { Intentions } of Parents; You will see that they find Pleasure in { Deceiving } their children, it is not only a { Necessary } to look after them;

It is a { Pleasure }, Doing { So } bring them a smile .

Children will grow up and realize this { What the parents enjoy from deceiving them }, then;

They will pay back but with { The art of Deceiving the Deceivers is a Double Pleasure }.

Starting with their own parents first, { I need money to attend a private lesson, ...etc. }

Then It will be an every day Habit,

They will grow up little more; Having the same concept; They will start{ deceiving themselves } as well as { Deceiving others }, by having faith in an idea or a false friend or even a lover,

{ Like our shadow, keeping close to us while we walk in the sunshine },ONLY..!

{ Leaving us the instant we cross into the shade}...!!

These are the things, Which they will start to deceive themselves for their sake.

Life wheel will keep rolling; they will grow up more and more; { Passing over others feelings and sometimes over their OWN }

Introducing to life new terminologies like sorrow, regret, pain, & grief.

Considering the variation in human nature, some will realize this SOON and others will take A LIFE TIME.

We deceive as well as being deceived, TRUE.....!

Haven't we all started to suspect the truth itself? …

Yes we do...!

We all born sincere and will die deceivers…!

HOWEVER; Whom to be blamed?

No one but ourselves… we did not have either the will or the courage to stop this damn chain…

We lost …

Yes, we did…

We lost good friends whom we could have the chance to have them.

We lost chances to have faith in some one that might be a good life partner.

We lost good times replacing them with fake or bad times.
We Lost Reality…re to edit.